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happy to be rid of the stupid captcha at last
me too, i was never mentioned or anything but it has absolutely killed any desire to rp for me
i think i am going to quit rp and not even my slps will give a shit
i really don't know which comm to pick anymore. this is not a cry for recs just me vaguely gesturing at everything and running out of energy
are you hearing this? he doesn't belong in a place like this
nd anon here and i’d like to join a comm but ic chatting is so hard for me. any recommendations on how to work on this?
i mean this is a nice way anon but you probably won't cope well with being in one
i hate that anons becomes a terrible place eventually but i also hate that i like hanging around just for the nonsense small talk and the occasional lol
the shittalk was slowing down so they probably got bored
now i have nothing to read through while i'm bored at work
you have the whole fucking internet to read through
(Anonymous)
2023-09-06 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
i've never posted in anons before out of fear, but i really want it to be known that as someone who used to be a really shitty slp to a lot of people, not to be a bully on purpose or anything like that but because i had a lot of things going on in my real life that i had no idea how to deal with and rp became an unhealthy crutch of sorts (absolutely not an excuse, i completely understand that), i've done a lot of work to be a better person both offline and online. i'm genuinely trying to be better for not only myself, but the people around me, and that includes people on this server. i apologize and want to say how sorry i am that i ever made this hobby a negative experience for people, it was never ever my intention even if that also isn't an excuse. i feel horrible hearing other people's stories about other bullies and abusers, and knowing i'm still brought up here and there for things i take full accountability for. i hope that anyone i've upset or triggered or something worse finds peace, whether it's in this hobby or just in general. i still rp, taking breaks inbetween, but it's not such an intense thing for me where i act up and do things i absolutely should not do to other people. i've been harassed and mistreated by a lot of people that i thought i was the only one being targeted, and there's solidarity and validation in knowing it wasn't in fact just me, but being on the other end of it has also put me in the shoes of the people i harmed. please know how sorry i am, please know that i've taken steps to be a better human, and please know that as a writer, i will never make anyone feel the way i did ever again. sending love to you all, including the people i never wrote with or interacted with. the world is ugly and i'm so so sorry that i ever was a part of that
2023-09-06 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
i've never posted in anons before out of fear, but i really want it to be known that as someone who used to be a really shitty slp to a lot of people, not to be a bully on purpose or anything like that but because i had a lot of things going on in my real life that i had no idea how to deal with and rp became an unhealthy crutch of sorts (absolutely not an excuse, i completely understand that), i've done a lot of work to be a better person both offline and online. i'm genuinely trying to be better for not only myself, but the people around me, and that includes people on this server. i apologize and want to say how sorry i am that i ever made this hobby a negative experience for people, it was never ever my intention even if that also isn't an excuse. i feel horrible hearing other people's stories about other bullies and abusers, and knowing i'm still brought up here and there for things i take full accountability for. i hope that anyone i've upset or triggered or something worse finds peace, whether it's in this hobby or just in general. i still rp, taking breaks inbetween, but it's not such an intense thing for me where i act up and do things i absolutely should not do to other people. i've been harassed and mistreated by a lot of people that i thought i was the only one being targeted, and there's solidarity and validation in knowing it wasn't in fact just me, but being on the other end of it has also put me in the shoes of the people i harmed. please know how sorry i am, please know that i've taken steps to be a better human, and please know that as a writer, i will never make anyone feel the way i did ever again. sending love to you all, including the people i never wrote with or interacted with. the world is ugly and i'm so so sorry that i ever was a part of that
i wasn't involved with any of this so idk the full details HOWEVER taking this comment at face value i wish that people would allow others to work on themselves like this if they've been hurting others. the same with problematic people irl, i wish we gave them (the ones that care about changing obviously, not the worthless pieces of shit that don't) the space and time to learn and grow. we're all works in progress and none of us know what someone else is going through on the other side of the screen, you know? i'm not excusing anyone's terrible behavior or siding with anyone that's been a terror or a bully, but i do just wish when people are honest like this that we accept it and allow ourselves to heal and move on, because grudges over literal years and shit never make anyone feel good
they were the same mod but you guys don't listen
good on them but you will never catch me with an apology because i know the jerk who is saying things doesn’t deserve one especially with the callous nature of their lies
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